Wind Watch Golf & Country Club

https://www.invitedclubs.com/clubs/wind-watch-golf-country-club

Wind Watch is a high-end golf course offering a luxurious Long Island golf club experience with stunning views of the North Shore from one of the island's highest points.

Denim is not allowed and collared shirts are required.

There are several local hotels.  Two convenient options are:

Walking Distance - Hyatt Regency

 https://www.hyatt.com/en-US/hotel/new-york/hyatt-regency-long-island/haupp?src=corp_lclb_gmb_seo_haupp

Courtyard by Marriot - 10 minute drive

https://www.marriott.com/en-us/hotels/ispcy-courtyard-long-island-macarthur-airport/overview/?scid=f2ae0541-1279-4f24-b197-a979c79310b0